authentic relationships

Dialogues for the Rich (& Poor)

“Curiosity as restless questioning, as movement toward the revelation of something hidden, as a question verbalized or not, as search for clarity, as a moment of attention, suggestion, and vigilance, constitutes an integral part of the phenomenon of being alive.” (Paulo Freire, 1998)After attending Harlem Stage’s Community Dialogue Series on Harlem, Cultural Capital and Naming […]

The Learning Curve

When my son turned ten, my husband and I took out an old video and transported ourselves back in time ten years. When did we grow old? I send my son to school every day. There, I know, is a bully. Also, an inexperienced teacher riddled with insecurity. I want to protect him from our […]

FACES: An Art Exhibit on May 23rd & 24th

This art exhibit to be displayed in one of Harlem’s spectacularly renovated brownstones on historical Striver’s Row is a celebration and tribute to those coming home this season. Celebrate with Sol Artz Collective, New Heritage Theater Group, Raquel Rios and many of our friends and associates this Memorial Day weekend. Friday, Wine Reception May 23rd, […]

Chickens Come Home to Roost

Sometimes in life, it’s time to come home. In this ever changing world with fast paced technology, airplanes that connect distant countries, emails that defy space and telephones that travel lightly wherever we go – it is easy to forget that there is no place like home. What does home mean to me? Home is […]

Perspective Taking: Friend or Foe?

Dedicated to my Mar y Sol. After one text message, three emails and several irate minute-and-a-half long messages left on my sister’s phone, we both decided it was time to hash out our differences face to face. We met at a mid-town bar, two thirty-something year old women trying to renegotiate a relationship that started […]

The Pressure Cooker Effect: On The Seduction of Common Sense

In the life of a free agent, there are significantly more opportunities to be in more than one place at a time. The resulting juxtaposition of events that inevitably becomes the backdrop of a free agent’s life also becomes the meat and potatoes of agency. The ability to link seemingly unrelated events in order to […]

The Mindful Lighthouse

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